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Text and Image Copyright Notice. Published under copyright by Loveawake Delaware. All rights reserved. Do you call your boyfriend too much? Do you find yourself tempted to pick up the phone to share the most inificant factoid with him?
If you continue to use this site we will assume that you are happy with it. Fitness Nutrition Sports Wellness. Show the person you understand their feelings, and facilitate the deepening of his or her own understanding of them.
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Anyone who has not mastered this is himself deluded when he proposes to help others. First, ask them if they have any ideas as to steps they could take to improve the situation — solutions are more likely to be adopted if the person comes up with them on their own.
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Now this just goes for gestures you initiate; in gauging the level of needed physical affection, you should really let the other person take the lead — they may lean in to that arm you drape over their shoulder, and if they do, you should reciprocate.
Maybe your girlfriend had a brutal day at work and fell apart when she came through the door. The gestures you make should generally match whatever you give the person on a normal basis. Sometimes people do want advice or a proposed solution to their problem, but even then, they usually first simply want to vent their feelings; as has often been observed, this is especially true of women.
This is the secret of the art of helping others. Have you ever had someone come to you crying?
Or your usually stoic buddy broke down about his girlfriend dumping him. But one of the things I think guys struggle with when trying to comfort someone is knowing how much physical affection to offer.
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How not to comfort someone. In order to help another effectively, I must understand more than he — yet first of all surely I must understand what he understands. In such cases, after going through the above steps, the person typically feels better for having shared the burden on their heart, and the sadness runs its course. Excess rumination is not only ineffective in alleviating depressed feelings, it can actually make them worse.
If, however, I am disposed to plume myself on my greater understanding, it is because I am vain or proud, so that at the bottom, instead of benefiting him, I want to be admired…To help does not mean to be a sovereign but a servant…not to be ambitious but to be patient. Fortunately, I recently came across some great tips from Dr.
John Gottmana professor of psychology and arguably the foremost relationship expert in the country. Other times, the upset person still feels unresolved, and wants advice on what to do. Next.